A lot can happen in a week. You may have noticed we are very late this week
writing our blog. We have had a week full of challenges and tender mercies. We are praying for another miracle. Let me tell you what's been going on.
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| Fireweed in Alaska. |
Last week was a great week. I felt like we were getting in a good rhythm again. We had a steady stream of people coming to our Visitors' Center. Elder Richards finished his mission here and brought his parents over to meet us and we took pictures in front of the temple. Tuesday afternoon we had our OAC meeting. I had an uplifting Tuesday evening again at the temple. Cookie Day finally pulled together at the last minute. We finished up our weekly report. Thursday evening we had a ward BBQ to celebrate Pioneer Day and enjoyed beautiful weather all week. July 24, 1847 is the day the pioneers entered the Salt Lake Valley. In Utah there are parades, rodeos, fireworks, and festivities all over the state. Friday I manned the Visitor Center while Farrell took care of a medical concern. Friday evening we had a dinner planned with three other senior missionary couples.
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A picture our grandson drew of the Anchorage Alaska Temple. |
As you recall from last Thursday we met Bret Taylor and he kindly offered to take boxes back to Utah for us when he travels there every two weeks. He has served in a Stake Presidency with President Hobbs. The next afternoon we met with Shannyn Bailey and expressed our appreciation for the opportunity to live in her and her husband's beautiful 4 bedroom Airbnb overlooking both the Anchorage Alaska temples - the one in operation, and the one being built. We loved being able to walk around the corner to the temple or walk three doors down to her parents home and use their back gate. We shared our prayer that we could stay in this home for the rest of our mission. Both of these are divine intervention.
On Friday, July 25, Farrell went to the emergency room with some stomach issues. He has been mentioning stomach discomfort for about three months and thought it was ulcers. He had tried repeatedly to get into a primary care physician here, but some aren't accepting any more Medicare patients or are several weeks or months out for new patients. The mission nurse, Sister Joseph, had advised us before she left her mission to just go to the emergency room if you have any issues because they have all the diagnostic equipment. Farrell had extensive blood work done early last October at the Alaska Health Fair and all the blood work for pancreas issues came back normal.
Friday evening we had that dinner with three other senior missionary couples. The food was decent, but we really enjoyed their company and returned home. I always Like sleeping in on Saturday morning. After getting ready I came downstairs. Farrell told me there had been more about the Dr. visit than he had shared the night before. He hadn't wanted to ruin my evening. After blood work and a CT scan, the doctor told him that he had pancreatic cancer. It appears to be stage 3. The blood work numbers were very abnormal. Definitive diagnosis comes with a later biopsy but the doctor really didn't express any doubt. Of course, Farrell likes to know all the details, so spent hours on the internet. Nothing was good news. When he shared it all with me, it was a tender, sober discussion which left me in tears and was the hardest thing he said he had ever done. His mother passed away shortly after our third child was born and losing a spouse has been a deep seated fear of mine ever since.
We immediately decided it was time to end our mission so he could get the best treatment possible or at least be home surrounded by family. Because projects are our families coping mechanism, I immediately started pulling everything out of the kitchen and storage room and sorting what to take, leave, give away, etc. This, of course, means that the family room and kitchen have pretty much been a disaster area ever since. Thankfully help is on the way.
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| Flowers at temple. |
We discussed it and felt that we needed to talk to our mission president first thing. President and Sister Ledesma are newly called from the Philippines. He is very kind, so genuine, and faith filled. He travels all over Alaska meeting with missionaries, but miraculously happened to be going to the temple that evening and agreed to meet us at the Visitors' Center at 6 p.m. After telling him the news, Farrell asked for a priesthood blessing. President Ledesma didn't have an consecrated oil, but he knew there would be some at the temple. We walked over and at the recommend desk I asked if a member of the temple presidency was available. We attend the temple nearly every week and know all of them. It's a small temple:) They said President Newman was available. As I walked toward the office I saw our Relief Society President, Emily Olsen. She works in the office. I told her and Sister Newman what was going on and we all hugged. Emily came with us. We met in his office and Pres. Ledesma and Pres. Newman gave Farrell a priesthood blessing. Then they gave me a blessing. It is amazing to receive a blessing from the mission president and the temple president -- another tender mercy.
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| Kitty with Alex Boye. |
We walked out to the car feeling uplifted and noticed we still had time to make it to the Alex Boye fireside that Jodi & Treg Taylor in our ward had arranged. He is the Alaska State Attorney General and his wife is totally his equal. They have a lovely family. They had told us about it the previous week during Sunday School and I had texted everyone I knew up here. We arrived a couple minutes late and walked inside the ward building. The place looked vacant and we wondered if we were in the wrong place or if it had been cancelled. We then saw Brother and Sister Johnson (ward family friends) walking down the hall toward us with some people behind them. She said the Relief Society room wasn't big enough so they had moved it to the chapel and we were now at the front of the line. The front row remained empty and we sat in the second row with our friends the Duggins. Two speakers shared uplifting stories including Alex Boye, and then he sang a couple of songs. He sang with the Tabernacle Choir, has an incredible voice, and is very animated. He is a member of our church, but the fireside was interdenominational. Twice as he presented his personal message he put his hand on Farrell's shoulder.

The next morning we attended church. We didn't tell anyone else at church because Farrell didn't want the attention. After we arrived home we started calling all our children. It was heartbreaking to tell them the news and emotionally exhausting. They know how much time Farrell spent in the yard and gardens and immediately mobilized to try and get it back in shape before we could see it again.
On Monday we met with Josh Foote at Westland. We called Brad Hill, our project director. Then met with Courtney Howell, our site manager. Then we contacted Sister Peck, our Special Project Department lead. So many facets need to be addressed as we wrap up our mission. Our original release date was August 11, 2025 and was just extended to December 11, 2026. We expected to stay here until the Anchorage Alaska Temple was completed. We were hoping to finish our last report this week, but it remains right where we left it last Friday. This would be week #74.
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| Sister Christensen. |
Tuesday morning we called Bret Taylor back to see if he was still all right with bringing back boxes to UT. He was so generous to still be willing to do that for us. Then we headed out to return some unused items to Costco and pick up moving boxes at Lowe's. These are big boxes. Just as we approached the temple we received a phone call that cookies were being dropped off. Farrell decided not to stop, but then changed his mind because they had come with lots of children and were standing in front of the Visitors' Center. It's a one way street and it takes about 5 minutes to drive back around through the neighborhoods. We checked and they were still there. He asked me to stop and explain the situation. I walked up to part of the group standing there. One pretty middle aged woman said she had been wanting to meet us for some time. Her son, Hunter Christensen, served as Farrell's executive secretary when Farrell was an LDS Bishop in Provo several years back. He had also been wanting to meet her and had been looking for her for two years. He wanted to tell her what a fine young man Hunter was. She lost her husband to brain cancer and had some good advice for me. I pulled out my ponytail and we took a picture. There was an amazing assortment of cookies. I usually don't have any, but tried a pumpkin chocolate chip muffin, since I hadn't eaten breakfast. The next morning when we put them out the workers were delighted. This day started out sweet and kept getting better and better. The Lord is truly involved in the details of our lives.
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| Car wash - our car far right. |
We decided to get a car wash if there was time and there was no one in line! That never happens in the middle of the day. There are usually two or three deep in each line. A clean car makes me happy and we have more company coming soon, so thank you Farrell for indulging me. My grandkids in Texas call Quick Quack Car Wash, "Grandma's favorite place." I would get my car washed in UT almost every time I was out because it was so fast and convenient - and it made me happy. It helps to have a monthly pass:)
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| Much needed rain at temple. |
I have loved serving as an ordinance worker at the Anchorage Temple. President Hobbs set me apart when he was a counselor to President Metcalf. He called as I was getting ready Tuesday, to tell me he had spoken with President Newman. He expressed his love and appreciation for me and my dear husband. I wasn't sure if I would be up to attending the temple that evening, but felt I needed the spiritual comfort I always find there. Tuesday evening during our preparation meeting this week he shared the experiences he had when he became the Temple President. He sat in the Celestial room with his wife and prayed to know what Heavenly Father wanted him to do during his time here. He received three instructions, two of which he shared. The first was, "Open the Temple." Shortly thereafter the endowment session was shortened church-wide and three more sessions were able to be added. The second was, "Tell my children I love them." I know our Heavenly Father is perfectly loving. He only wants to bless us as we obey His commandments. Pres. Hobbs also shared that when he started serving three years ago there were 300 temple workers, now there are 787. That is astounding. And with all those workers he took the time to call me that evening. Sister and President Hobbs then shared their testimonies, telling us it was their last Tuesday at the temple. They are being released and moving to Idaho. I am so grateful I went. The timing of all these events was amazing. They are for our benefit and comfort.
I was assigned to work in the initiatory, but because they had two new patrons we waited outside the dressing room. I had a chance to say goodbye to sister after sister that I dearly love with lots of hugs and remembering us is their prayers. Sister Duggins, a treasured friend from our Temple View ward was there. Some gave me comforting advice and told me about special uplifting experiences she had had. These women are all so faithful. Sister Staley said "Bro. Bake said to say hi". I said, Mark Bake? "I don't know his first name, but he works at the Provo City Center Temple." I do indeed know him and his whole family. He married and sealed our youngest daughter in the Provo City Center Temple a year ago last August, right before we came on our mission. We have known them for over forty years. He asked where I was from and when I said Alaska, he asked which temple I attended? I told him there was only one temple in Alaska! He asked if I knew Brother and Sister Badger, the Temple Construction Missionaries. I told him she works with me as an ordinance worker on Tuesday evening. He couldn't believe it! There are no coincidences.
Tuesday on my walk home from the temple, I saw our neighbor across the street, Kay, putting out her garbage. I told her we were leaving and gave her a hug. I mentioned to her we had some hanging plants and asked if she would like one. She said yes and said she usually gets one, but didn't this year. It rained most of the day yesterday, but during a break in the weather I walked over to bring
her one of our hanging plants. She was on the phone with her daughter as it was
Kay's birthday! I hung the beautiful plant by her front door. While I was there
I asked if she had any dishwasher tabs, since we ran out. She brought me a new
tub, but said she couldn't figure out how to open it, since her eyesight isn't
good. I opened it and she offered by as many as I wanted. I took five to get us
by until we can get to the store. A tender mercy for both of us. God is indeed
the master choreographer.
I received a text Wednesday morning from Lois Swensen. Her and her dear husband invite us to game night at their home every month. Farrell just goes for the snacks and conversation. We were just there on July 19. They invented the game AlaskaAlaska which we gave to all of our family for Christmas. Her text read, "Jay and Pat Clark say hello." He was the sealer assigned to escort Evan (as sealer at the temple here) around the Mount Timpanogos temple. Clark's lived in our Mapleton ward and we have know them for over three decades. They have blessed our lives in so many ways over the years.
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| Farrell waving by new north fence. |
We put out cookies Wednesday morning for our weekly Cookie Day, expressing our appreciation to the workers and getting hand shakes and hugs from our dear friends at Westland. Josh is attending his father-in-laws funeral this week. So many expressed their spiritual faith of God's hand in our lives. Most workers are not LDS. Many are very faithful in their congregations. It gives me joy to know we all come together as we have faith in our Savior, Jesus Christ.
Yesterday afternoon at 2:56 I felt it was time to call our dear friend, Michelle Baer, in Utah. Unbeknownst to me she had texted me 14 minutes earlier. We had planned an amazing trip with the Baer's to Denali with our other dear friends, Elder & Sister Gailey, serving in Soldotna AK. We were going to take the Alaska Railroad up to Denali and stay two nights at the Denali Wilderness Princess Lodge, eat out, bus around the national park, see wildlife, enjoy great company, and the fall foliage. Due to our needing to bow out and another commitment, the Baer's also cancelled. We were able to cancel our train and hotel reservations. It was wonderful to share all the tender mercies and know our Heavenly Father is mindful of us. My new motto it, "Don't let future sorrow steal today's joy."
I have said how being on a mission has been good for our marriage. This time has been especially sweet. I can't imagine my life without my husband, but I try not to let myself go there. He is in the Lord's hands. Please pray for a miracle for Farrell. We are combining our faith and prayers as we fast for healing for him this Sunday. Please join us if you are willing and able. We love you. Texts are welcome, but we are overwhelmed right now and may need some space. Thank you for all your love and support. #Think Celestial
Love always, Elder & Sister Badger